I am completely crushed!!! I lost my sweetheart! My ex-boyfriend dumped me off at th the bus station and someone stole my bag with ALL of my IMPORTANT documents in it. My birth certificate, medical papers, copies of mi ID, my social security number,tax information, my nursing license, my computer ALL GONE!! I called the lost and found at the bus station and they cannot find it!!! THIS IS A NIGHTMARE!!!! I feel like I lost my LOVE and my LIFE!!!! I don't think that I can survive this!! What do I do? I brought all of those important documents because I moved in with him and i need those papers for work and a new ID!!!!! I AM COMPLETELY HERTBROKEN!!!!!!! HE JUST DUMPED ME OFF AT 3AM and left. I haven't loved anyone but him since my ex-husband. I DONT WANT TO LIVE ANYMORE!!!!!! I feel like ending my life and I think that this is the perfect time to do it!!!!|||ok here is the best advice for you, i picked your question becuase i hope i can help you. First, you life is not over, yes u are having a hard time but do not focus on the negatives! I could not imagine having my info stollen. Now about the boyfriend, yes it will be hard and you already know this becuase u say it yourself, but realize that there are billion of people on earth and u will and can find someone that is better than him, I promise you. Patience is a virtue. So what you need to do FIRST AND FORMOST is file a report do what you have to or whatever the case maybe to find out about getting all of ur info. if you need help, go to a church tell the pastor what is going on....they wont entitle you to attend services they might suggest it but its up to you. now the reason why Im telling you to go to a church is because I am a christian and I do NOT believe in a HAND OUT....i believe in a HAND UP....you need help up and a church will give you that hand. Now you need to worry about yourself right now, this life is about you. think about it.....im on the outside and im looking in....so its easier to diagnos the promblem that what you see becuase you are on the inside looking and its hard to cope. But when you get all of your info taken care of then focus on the healing process of your bf....i promise you its gonna be hard.....but whatdoesnt kill you makes you stronger it may not seem like a lot of since today but it will soon come together for you in the future. I don't know if you are a woman of god, but remmeber you will never be turned away from god and he will see you through all of this. I promise you! In Summary:
Go file the reports
Go to a church close by talk with the pastor or priest about helping you....you may feel like you just cant do that but thats the LEAST of your worries right now.
when you get your info taken care of focus on the healing process of ur bf. i am so serious about what i have told you and please take my advice i would love to know you are ok....im not a weirdo or a freak....i just read your story and I felt covicted to try to help you. |||What sort of belief do you have in life? A broken relationship and couple of lost documents is small and unimportant when compared to life. If you think it is the end of the world, think again.. Life is so sweet and enormous by itself that these are negligible matters..
If you don't get the documents in a couple of days apply for duplicates. You are one of the millions who loose their boyfriend and one in a billion who lose documents.. Cheer up and look for a new BF and try to get the documents back or go for the duplicates.. Best of Luck|||no whatever you do DONT ending your life is never a choice because you have to take into consideration of all the other people you will be hurting other than yourself and (if your religious) you may have not fullfilled your purpose in being on this earth AND suicide is a ticket to hell but im sure the documents ect. will turn up soon your boyfriend will patch things up and you will be on top of the world again.|||Pray and please don't end your life, you have to much to live for. Someone stole my cousins purse and she ended up just fine. I would start by calling around and canceling all of your credit cards and debit cards. You can also apply for a new social security card. I also think you can put an alert on your curent social serurity number.|||I suggest that you get off the internet and pray. Was you're life worth ending before you met this person? Well then its not worth ending now. People impact our lives but that's as far as it goes. Other people don't make you who you are. You have to ask yourself, "why am I so messed up over someone who obviously doesn't give a dogon about me". Why should you end your life so that he can continue to live his happily.
Girl you need to pray!|||OMG you need help we can't give you.
Get to a shelter, and start rebuilding your life! You need to learn to trust again, but it should be a long, and careful process. You have been totally abused! And you need to learn how to trust yourself first.
As for the papers, they are papers. They will take some time, patience and work to replace, but they are only paper, andyou can do it.
Be strong! |||Okay, calm yourself
If he left you he didn't love you, that means it's time to move onto someone who does, and deserves you!
As for the document things I'm not possitive, but you may be able to get other coppies of them if you contact the companies or whatever they're called-they'll understand.|||ok take a second here and breathe deep. you can deal with the boyfriend later ok ignore him, hes minor
first of all get your documents in order. cancel any cc' you might have and go to the local social security office and tell them. your nursing license- contact your state board.
just calm down here-theres procedures to getting back every one of those things.
|||Suicide is a very selfish answer. Think of the people who will miss you. At first, you might choose to believe that no one will, but REALLY think about it. There are alot of people who will.
Also, call the cops and report to them what happened with your ex boyfriend.|||Praying is about right...I know that sucks but people come and go...we learn our lessons on the kind of people we associate ourselves with by the situations we deal with because of them. We also learn how to be a better US. Sometimes we are the ones who need work and need to be humbled so we go through humbling experiences. Just pray. Go home and get your documents back. We have all had to start from scratch at some point in our lives. I suggest you start at the DMV|||Call the police... government, you shouldn't be worrying about your boyfriend save yourself first, get all your docs first... and cops and... blah blah blah blah get the government police and all that lawyer stuff, after that get a boyfriend...
PRIORITY
SAVE YOURSELF
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praying won't help, TAKE SOME DAMN ACTION
yeah cops is the first place... if all fails come back here.|||Did you leave the bag in the car when he dropped you off at the bus station? Why did you call the bus station if you were there? Sorry something doesn't jive in your explanation of what went down. |||That is what happens when your hope is in something other than God. Only God can fix your problem, and is up to you to decide if you will give him the opportunity. |||bad things come in 3's so expect one more thing to go wrong...then it will get suddenly better...this allways happens to me...mabey you will win somthing or meet someone...depend on the way you thing and see things but i relise its not a known fact but this allways happends too me good luck.|||If he'd do that to you, you're better off with out him.
For your papers, your State Department should carry copies of all those.
And it's not worth hurting yourself.
'Bout all I can tell you. Sorry.|||Everyone has the same feeling in the same situation .But try to find ur documents or provide new ones.If ur bf left u don't blame ur self and pray.|||Every single thing on that list is replaced easily enough. You, can not be replaced.|||I believed you until you said you lost your computer.
If this should happen to be true, hang in there. There are better men than he.|||I'm sure this is all just a big joke. Just relax, I'm sure your sweetheart will show up with your bag in one hand and flowers in the other and scream "Gotcha!" |||NO DO NOT END UR LIFE THAT WOULD BE THE WORIEST THING U COULD DO!!!! MEN COME AND GO UR LIFE IS TOO PRECIOUSE GET THE PROPER AUTHORITIES TO HELP U CANCEL THINGS BUT PLASE DONT END UR LIFE|||Pity Party..Pass the popcorn. If your computer is GONE, where the blood hell are you typing this from? |||yes indeed pray or wait for a miracle|||awww :( i'm sorry :I y did he dump yU?|||CHOOSE LIFE! Please, dont kill yourself. God will take care of you. Dont do it! Everything happens for a reason|||Well you can pray.|||there are many mountians you must climb.. this is probly just one of them..
this will soon pass.|||Go try and pet a skunk! |||:( im sorry this is happening.go on freecreditreport.com okay.good luck okay that will help with your s.s numbeer.or go to lifelock.com.|||This is the perfect time to pray.
I'll pray for you too.
I'm sorry for your troubles. Calm down. You just need to make a few phone calls to get those things replaced. They're probably in the bottom of a trash can right now. People who grab bags at bus stations are after some quick cash, not out to steal your ID. Life will go on. God has a reason for this happening. Maybe He wants you to trust Him more. Someone who would leave you at 3:00 a.m. is not someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. Better days are coming. You seem to have access to a computer which is a good thing. Don't end your life. God has a plan for your life and suicide is not it. Psalm 147:3 says "He healeth the broken in heart and bindeth up their wounds." Psalm 34:18 says "The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit." Call on the Lord to help you.
Jesus loves you. He died for your sins and rose again that you might have eternal life. John 3:16|||You can survive this!
First thing tomorrow, make sure you report that you lost things like a birth certificate and SSN, and whatever else you lost. You'll have to do some running around but people lose things and the companies and government who provide them understand this and can accomodate it. In Canada, you can go to the health care office if you lose everything all at once. I'm sure there are similar services in the states - go to the government offices and ask.
About the boyfriend... ***** him. Any man who leaves a woman at a bus terminal at 3 am does not deserve a woman at all. Even if he is dumping her. There are men who would not even leave any kind of woman out on the streets at 3 am and that is the kind of man you can find. be independent... I'm sure you have survived worse, and it made you better off. Think about it!|||well. you can commit suicide if you are a weak minded coward. No? then you can start thinking about where to get that purse back...go step by step here..forget about your sweet hear here..i mean think about rebuilding you life. It is like building a house you know? you can't be worrying about how to build a roof if you dont even have the base foundation set up!! Oh yea...another thing you can do is you can seek revenge upon whoever that gives you misfortune. In this case is your boyfriend. take his life and take all his belongings. No? weak minded coward!!
Anyways there is one last thing you can do...you can blame everyone around you and start slapping everyone around you. Dont even blame yourself. you are not at fault here. the people who are at fault here is your boyfriend and the person who stole your stuff. (may be they are the same meaning your bf stole your stuff). Anyways blame them and slap them, hate them, and bring out the vengence in you! No? Weak minded coward!!
Oh wait i said it was the last but no there is one more thing you can do. you can be a loser and start crying crying crying in the corner of your room until an arch angel shows up to help you...but chances are...anyways..May Allah have mercy on those weak minded cowards.
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